A Man's Perspective: Ok we ALL know infidelity is animate; you would be a complete fool to think otherwise but tell me this, has having more than one man or woman grown to be an excessive way of life? Is it wrong to have someone on the side if you’re so-called in a “committed” relationship? I’m curious to know what you think so I posed this question. I think it would be quite interesting to get views from the men and women on this heated issue. I personally think that the double standard needs to be put to rest because it is evident that women cheat just as much as men. Please note that I am NOT condoning this behavior at all, but more so speaking and pointing out the truth and we all know the truth hurts at times! In addition, I’m not making this solely an issue about infidelity though it literally ties in with the subject matter. The major issue I have is that women tend to demean us men for what they assume to be our acts of iniquitous behavior when they rightfully know what’s going on from the jump. Many women turn a blind eye to the issue OR choose to settle, settle with being the main woman in the “relationship” and I use that term loosely despite what’s going on OR settle for being the sideline woman aside from the man’s main woman. I find it amusing how women go back and forth when they’re a “sideline” or one of many other sidelines. What makes you any better than the next one? If you’re not the “main” woman and you’re choosing to settle to be the sideline then you really have no say in the situation so continue to play your role since you’re settling. Even if you are or think you’re the “main” woman, you really still have no say in the situation since your settling. Yes, I know just like how we as men can have women on the side from our “main” woman, women can also have men on the side from their “main” man but of course the majority of the time we are unaware of it which can be a good thing for you if your man or men are not afraid to catch a case.
This is such a deep topic and issue that can tend to get heated when discussed but what do you expect?
Are you a sideline? One of the many sidelines? Are you aware and settling? Are you turning a blind eye to the situation? Are you in denial? Are you the “main” one? Or could you care less about it all?
I find it quite interesting hearing people's views on this issue.
Don’t take this to heart; I’m just keeping it real and truthful so entertain yourself in the discussion!
Don’t take this to heart; I’m just keeping it real and truthful so entertain yourself in the discussion!
Lastly, I DO NOT have any sideline's, I was rather posing a question and giving my view on the issue.
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I think cheating in general is a way of life now a days. Especially when it comes to relationships. I'm not saying is the right thing to do but is just something that most people do. I think is hilarious when the sidelines and the main ones know about each other yet they both think they have the upperhand of the relationship.
Could care less about it all?
" Settling for a Sideline has many definitions....the one who does the
infidelity is usually the one with the Low Self Esteem trying to identify who he or she is, by deceit "deceiving others" or they would
tell the other person up front...They trick you into thinking you are the only one, then you fall in love....played on your emotions.
If the men or women know each other then they have accepted that relationship.
On the other hand, "Could care Less". Sometime when people come out of a long term relationship and have grown to another level, do not want the full responsibility they will enter into these kind of relationships... they do not really care about the others. They feel they have been there and done it...and he
or she uses that space to get their own life back, and sometimes the person moves on from that relationship.
Speaking from experience..."One who could care Less" and I do not compete for no man...come out of a long term relationship and enjoy the space...Guess you know now..
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